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Monday, August 13, 2012

Stuff People Say To Autistics

http://parentingwithaspergers.blogspot.com/2012/02/st-ignorant-people-say-to-autistics.html
Posted by Ericka Autiegirl at 8/13/2012 07:41:00 PM
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